Online Anxiety Therapy in Washington

Kim Heming, LMHCA, online therapist for parents and caregivers in Washington

Your brain is trying to help (it’s just dramatic about it)

If your mind runs worst-case scenarios on a loop, replays last week’s conversation, and won’t settle even when you’re exhausted, that isn’t weakness. It’s a nervous system doing its job a little too well. I’m Kim, and I offer online anxiety therapy for teens and adults across Washington.

Does this sound familiar?

  • Overthinking conversations, decisions, and things that haven’t happened yet

  • Feeling on edge, restless, or tense for no clear reason

  • Trouble sleeping because your brain has opinions at 2 a.m.

  • Saying yes to avoid conflict, then dreading what you agreed to

  • Rehearsing how to say things, then not saying them

  • Feeling like you have to keep everyone okay

  • Avoiding things because they feel like too much

Anxiety and people-pleasing often travel together

For many people, anxiety is partly a job: anticipate everyone’s needs, avoid disappointing anyone, stay one step ahead. It’s a smart strategy that gets exhausting. Therapy isn’t about “fixing” you or making you stop caring. It’s about understanding where the pattern came from and deciding what you want to do with it now.

How I work with anxiety

I draw from approaches like CBT, mindfulness-based practices, and nervous-system-informed work. The goal is for you to understand what’s happening in your mind and body and leave sessions with tools you can use on a Tuesday afternoon, not just in my office. When anxiety is tied to past experiences that keep feeling present, we can explore if EMDR may be appropriate.

Learn more about Trauma & EMDR → Trauma & EMDR Therapy

Teens welcome

I work with teens 13+ on anxiety, school stress, social pressure, and big transitions. After 20+ years as a teacher and school counselor, I know what teens are juggling at school and at home.

Learn more about Teen therapy → Teen Therapy

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Services

Fee and payment information for therapy services at Estuary Wellness & Counseling, serving teens, adults, and families throughout Washington.